About Me:

- Carole Williams
- Snellville, Georgia, United States
- About Me? Well, I have decided to throw my myself into the vulnerable atmosphere of online blogging. Why? Because as a born-n-raised southern girl, I’ve moved to the foreign country of Miami, FL with no friends, no espanol, and only a job to concern myself, I figured it might be fun to share my experiences. I’ve always wanted to prove I can do things on my own and here’s my chance. I like idea of blogging for a couple reasons. I want to share, and boast a tiny bit, but for the most part, I need the outlet since Im living alone, far away from the comfort of my Atlanta neighborhood. SO pardon the not-so-eliquently written wave of good & bad updates, Miami-themed what-have-yous, and a few expected pictures - all that will essentially tell the story of how I am learning to live on my own. A merry heart doeth good like a medicine: but a broken spirit drieth the bones Proverbs 17:22
Sunday, 13 September 2009
Gameday.
What can you say about gameday that it doesn't already express in itself. The excitement that goes along with the mere mention of the word or something related strikes deep within the souls of football fans. If I do say so myself, I think UGA spits out a crowd of drunk obnoxious georgia fans that any university would be proud to claim.
The benefit of UGA and what it facilitates in tailgating trumps many other schools since our stadium is on campus and holds over 92,000 people. For myself, my home is a short ten minute walk to the gate. This only means that it is my duty as a student and Athens resident to open up my home in the early morning hours for recreation and fellowship.
Our weekend began when the alumni crowd showing up and who kept me out until the wee small hours of the night. As we picked up our Little Italy pizza after bars closed, we head home with the anticipation of what is coming the next morning... reminds me of the feeling of Christmas Eve night, ha!
The 8 am alarm sounds and within the next few hours, we picked up breakfast and keg. We shower and put on our spirit wear. Our tent is up and cornhole out. The fold out chairs line the pine aisle next to the various dips and baked goods which covered the red and black table cloths and the beer-stained flip-cup-table took center stage. Sallie says, "If that doesn't scream Georgia Football, I don't know what does".
The ending of a perfect tailgating day, however, is the perfect ending to the football game. Way to go Dawgs! UGA beat USC 41-37
Monday, 31 August 2009
Mickey, Rudy, Sam... Sean
Goonies was your typical 80's kids movie that everyone has seen and to which now is a standard joke at keg parties. Rudy may be one of the first movies I remember being emotionally inticing. As a sucker for the underdog, Rudy was inspiring and helped me through a few suicude sprints in my high school day. Ah, Lord of the Rings - The grown up version of Harry Potter. Suspenseful, thrilling, action packed, well acted, directed, blah blah blah.. everything that makes a movie great.
Sean Astin. He has vital roles in each of these films. I was no less than thrilled to hear what he had to say. Through the grapevine, I hear he is here to promote his book, There and Back Again. The event begins with a stream of clips from the many appearances he has made. The 800 or so students and faculty who came were amped. What do you expect after hearing his locker room speech from Rudy?
As I am with most celebrities, I am always surprised at how normal he is. Astin's speech was similar to that of an Oscar speech....but longer. He thanked God for his family and gave credit to his Mom and Dad (who apparently were famous actors too). He gabbed about his wife and kids and how he is enternally greatful. He was able to carry on an entertaining and well written oral presentation while appropriately making comical references to his movies. He seemed happy, content, and proud of his accomplishments. With good reason, I must add. I was impressed with his vocab and his list of philanthropic ventures as he read, yes read, his words. My critique is this: While he boasted about his college degree in History and Literature, he most likely did not take a public speaking course. In the words of my own professor, "I saw the top of his head more than his face." What a bummer!
As we entered our Q&A session, I was excited to hear how he would respond without his trusty notes in front of him. Again I was satisfied with his showy ability to use big words but what impressed me most was that he was actually funny! This, mind you, is the quality I am most vulnerable for. He fired answers back at students with wit and charisma. He effecitevly used metaphors, and mocked politics as well as his previously played characters. His acting skills paid off because he was well versed, speaking with conviction and all the while showing integrity and confidence.
Q&A began to bore me after students became comfortable enough to ask questions like "Want to go grab a brew?" and "Will you marry me?". I left early slightly annoyed at this but was happy to hear a few entertaining words from Astin. I may not buy his book, as I am a financially struggling student, but I would be excited to hear what others have to say. I'm guessing it might leave it's readers thinking, "RUDY! RUDY! RUDY! RUDY..."
Wednesday, 26 August 2009
the almost adult
...So what if... what happens when it does matter?
The same feeling arises during job interviews. First of all, I have a hard time comprehending the fact that I am old enough to be job searching. Second, though I may have passed a mere class presentation using a trifold poster or whatnot.... scratch that, nobody uses those anymore... using an eco-friendly and tech-savy slide show, listing my strengths and weakness for a critical individual whose main purpose is to hound me with questions on how I am smarter, more experienced, more mature, better equiped, and just plain better than the probable-infinte amount of other applicants, is far beyond my abilities to maintain sanity.
so... IM SORRY that when I am not fully prepared for a single unexpected question like with who else am I applying for internships and why and why them, specifically, I am a little uncomfortable because to be quite honest I applied to what seems about 1000 other places to hopefullly increase what small chance I probably have of getting an intership anyway!!! If you ask me, (and not the social-norms-inventor) then I would say, "That's none of your damn business!!
post interview: My palms are dried and my heartrate is normal. I feel silly for getting nervous and even sillier for thinking that one small question where I was hesitant and unsure of myself will lead to an automatic red line drawn diagonally over my resume. I am sending my dutiful followup message tomorrow.
"Wish" me luck!
Sunday, 23 August 2009
To decorate or not to decorate
Wednesday, 19 August 2009
Back to the Future
I am back in the United States of America and tonight I am bloggin' about my experiences since I have returned. It has been five days.
I was told in a journalism class that a writer should include something that will attract a readers attention like a pie graph or a bullet list. so another list -
5 days of USA
- day 1 - Hartsfield airport - While I commend their efforts to protect us from terrorists, I am no less than annoyed by the 2 hours it takes from landing until I get to my car.
- day 1 - HOTlanta
- day 1 - First stop Chick-Fil-A
- day 1 - nausea from CFA
- day 1 - Atlanta traffic
- day 1 - driving on the right side of the road
- day 1 - driving
- day 1 - American TV shows
- day 1 - call to Papa - still ranting on Obama
- day 1 - American accents
- day 1 - alone time... ah, yes
- day 1 - my own: bed/shower/closet/food/kitchen/family/schedule
- day 2 - biscuits and gravy
- day 2 - giant glasses
- day 2 - free refills
- day 2 - not having to search for an outlet converter
- day 2 - tiny coins - fewer coins
- day 2 - I have way to much STUFF
- day 2 - American music
- day 2 - using a cell phone! (unlimited texting!)
- day 2 - Obama email from Papa
- day 2 - constant sunshine!
- day 2 - ATHENS!!!! "It feels like home to me"
- day 2 - Rush, from a distance this year
- day 2 - Downtown Athens and lovely Allgood - saw Will and Thomas from Oxford trip
- day 2 - local friends
- day 3 - feeling of being broke
- day 3 - apartment froofing
- day 3 - saying/hearing "yall"
- day 3 - wal-mart maddness - avoid for at least two weeks after classes have started
- day 3 - Kroger!! and the Kroger Plus Card
- day 4 - bus routes
- day 4 - morning exercise routines
- day 4 - having a routine
- day 4 - THE HEAT
- day 4 - professor mentions Obama
- day 4 - jet lag continues
- day 4 - head to trivia night anyway
- day 4 - my car
- day 5 - UGA football ticket sign ups
- day 5 - tennis class - could fry an egg on the court
- day 5 - rushing
- day 5 - organizing
- day 5 - ...settling
Tuesday, 11 August 2009
High Table
To give you a taste of what I ws anticipating, apparently at high table it's not polite to get up to go to the toilets! Before beginning your meal, a bowl of rose water is brougth around where you are expeceted to daintily wash yourself. Proper procedure is to talk to the person beside you. After you hear the gavel sound, you switch and converse with the person on your other side. I took cotillion, but this scenario was way out of my league!
I dressed in my most cocktail attire adding a shaw to present myself conservatively, paid my 1.80 pounds for the bus, and we headed on our way. We began our night on the lawn outside the school mingling and sipping our pims. I was told pims is gin and tea with orange and lemon slices. I wanted to throw back about four in efforts to cover up my insecurity of not being on top of my fancy-game, but I put on my poker face and socialized with the Oxford dons who didn't stay long, mind you! To my surprise, the crowd seemed casual.
Group by group, we made our way into the dining room. Picture the Harry Potter dining scenes. The long tables and the elders on an elevated stage. Photos of historic patrons like Queen Victoria and John Wesley lined the walls and watched me eat with their judging eyes. I soon felt comfortable, however, the bottomless wine was more than welcomed. The atmosphere, while gave the image of high class, the noise level was similar to that of a busy pub. I sat amongst fellow students yelling to speak to the person across from me. Not what I had expected from the tall tales of the infamous high table experience.
We made it through a lovely meal of crawfish and avocado, beef and potatoes and what I took as a very alcoholic red velvet cake. We were left with a speech from an Oxford don and an unexpected UGA chant, "Who's that comin' down the track..."
My experiences have shown me that there is no event too classy that UGA students and alumni can't turn into a party. Go Dawgs!
Monday, 10 August 2009
I AM(probably not)sterdam
When I think Amsterdam, I think:
- Red Light district
- Bike capital of the world
- Vincent Van Gogh
- Heineken
- Canals
- Marijuana
- Anne Frank Huis
- Tulips
- Crooked houses
As the six of us step off the train in the famous Amsterdam Central Station, we are immediately introduced to what makes up the Red Light District. Our five-minute stroll to the hostel consisted of stoners, gays, prostitutes, homeless beggers, and drunken college students... or as I'm guessing, the drop-outs. With pepper spray in hand and eyes bugged, I practically broke down the hostel door. I guess he was right - an Oxford don advised us on our way to the airport that the RLD is not suitable for young ladies.
After the inital shock wore away, I was able to embrace what Amsterdam had to offer. Outside the RDL, Amsterdam kept us busy. For two and half days we walked, biked, and floated around the city and visiting the attractions. Van Gogh and Anne Frank Huis were my favorite sites and well worth the pricey tickets.
If I were to work for Rick Steve or The lonelyplanet, I would encourage a bike tour. It gives you a chance to see the city in a fun and unique way. However, if you decided to rent for the day, like we did, you will not be able to sit comfortably in a chair for the next three days.
In my opinion, if you decide to make a trip to Amsterdam, do it in your youth. The nightlife encourages what's considered sinful misbehavior to those who are culturally in tune with that of mainstream American values. While I admit to a few innocent bites of space cake and a couple Heinekens before strolling the streets by night, that was the extent of my social deviance. I must have looked like a stepford wife compared to the hippies and stoners who lurk. It also didn't help that our group of six consisted of frat boys in their greek letters and well-manored girls from our very southern state of Georgia!
Our last night it was just Chelsey and me left in the city. We decided to sit down to one of the many table and chairs outlining a popular square. We enjoyed another beverage and some street entertainment before making our way back to the hostel. Can't go wrong people watching. I consider it a must-do if you're looking to really experience a city and get to know its culture. All in all it was another successful adventure. I leave Amsterdam tired, dirty, sore, enlightened, and still young.